"I guess, to understand what happened, and what went wrong, we must start at the beginning. The very beginning." Unknown author It can be very easy to blame others for where you are now. In doing this you are living in the past. It's a great teacher, but one you no longer need. Being in the present, where you are now is where your meant to be. If you are suffering, fight your way out. We all need to know that as bad as we may feel today, it won't last forever. You won't always feel bad. That's why we live in the present and are open to the future.